08/23, 2010
The Advantages And Disadvantages Of Getting Married
“When one gets married, that day becomes one of the most special day in his or her life. Many of us dream of a splendid feast for our wedding day. Traditionally, weddings happen in churches, though there are those in other countries where in their main preference is to have a civil wedding because of financial constraints. But before getting married, one must be able to understand all the issues involved and one must know what to expect.
Pros:
1. LOVE – one of the good things that a person would get if the gets married is the love that his or her partner will give to him/her. Being loved in return by the person you also love is a very great feeling.
2. DREAM – When a couple gets married, the become one. They will now share their dreams and all the aspirations in life. They help each other realize that dream. The dreams that couples share will mainly involve the welfare of the family which would be achieved if the couple will do it together.
3. HAPPINESS – Having a family of our own is a great feeling. We can experience how it is to have kids and watch them grow and realize their own dreams. In fact, it has been said that being a parent is one of the most rewarding things in the world.
Cons:
1. JEALOUSY – no matter how much a couple tries to keep their relationship in a good shape and jealous-free status, it is not avoidable that there will come a time wherein either one of them or both of them will get jealous at someone or something. Jealousy is one of the most common reasons why couples break up. Being jealous is one of the negative things that a person gets when in a relationship, whether married or not.
2. DECISION-MAKING – by the time a person gets married, he is not able to make decisions by himself anymore. He should first consult it to his partner. This is also another major cause of fights and arguments between couple.
Remember, though married, each person is unique regardless of what others say. There are always instances when they differ in their own judgments and opinions. This is the most common cause of fights because differing in opinions can lead to arguments which could adversely affect the couples and the children, if the couple already has children of their own.
Having a day of wedding coordinator is not only a necessity if you want a perfect wedding, ‘no man is an island’ and no bride can do everything without being left stressed out for the actual wedding day. That is how important it is to hire a wedding day coordinator.